Advice for dating a commitment phobe

20-Mar-2018 02:08

This is where you need to restrain yourself from reacting and over-reacting to her.

Try to keep a cool head and deal with the situation.

However, if you pursue a love interest despite your gut’s warnings, at least go slowly and pay attention.

Her happiness is more important to you than your own. To put it simply, she’s the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. She shares most of your interests, if not all, and vice versa.

For instance, say, “It makes me feel unheard if you cut me off.

Succeeding at this goal requires that you be a realist and listen to logic, not the tugs of your heart or what you wish would be.

First, for commitment-phobes, it can feel safer to keep a distance, especially if they’ve been hurt, betrayed or suffered a great loss.

Also, they may resist commitment if they’ve had an abusive, critical or controlling parent who invaded their boundaries or smothered them.

Therefore, they may unconsciously prefer unrequited love to the vulnerable, soul-stretching work of emotional intimacy.

Once I fell hard for an emotionally unavailable younger man who’d just left a live-in relationship with a woman he couldn’t commit to.Be prepared for pain, but learn from the lessons that come. They must want to fix themselves and fulfill their own potential. It’s a sign of respect to allow people to be themselves.

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